When Homeschooling Doesn’t Fit Your Mold

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Homeschooling Isn't Meant to Look Perfect

The Initial Picture

When I first began homeschooling back in 2004, I had the ideal picture in my head. I also had only 2 children, one of whom was actually doing any sort of “school work” by the age of 3.

In addition, my first born was (is) a very eager learner and quickly punched through any workbook I placed in front of her. So, by the time she turned 6, we switched to something more robust and challenging: Tapestry of Grace. She rose to the occasion.

Coming up behind her was her younger brother and a one year old tornado. Thankfully she started off as a rather independent learner.

The Reality of Our Days

Today, I often have younger children running around in the background as I try to teach my older children. They don’t stay engaged very long, and when they do, they make a rather large mess by the end of teaching my lesson.

There are just some things I cannot control and I have to be OK with. As someone who came from public schools, it’s all I have to go off of on how “school” is supposed to look and it has taken a long time for those walls to come down and learn that learning can be done in more than one way.

So, having said all that, the ideal I had in my head to teach my children the same things, at the same time, from the same curriculum just doesn’t happen. My children have different needs, learn at different levels, and with different methods. That makes for a rather interesting day of school!

No two days look a like around here, despite my carefully planned out schedule.  The schedule simply cannot account for a child “not in the mood” to do their lessons, a child who gets sick, tired children who’ve had a long weekend, or distracted children. I mean, really, the list can go on. And with seven children, it’s rare we have a smooth day of school.

I think it’s important, in order to set ourselves and our children up for success, to accept the fact that our expectations may be too high and to take things as they come. That’s not to say we shouldn’t plan, but the plans will get messed up and we can’t just throw our hands up when that happens. We simply need to adjust ourselves to that reality and work from that place.

Today, I am getting over a cold that has knocked me down these last couple of days. I am still not feeling 100% myself, therefore I can not perform optimally. In addition, I have not yet been to my friends to pick up our next set of books for the next unit in our Tapestry studies. In light of this, I am adjusting our week accordingly.

Thankfully, we just made a great library visit over the weekend, so the children have plenty of new, good quality books to dig into. And because I’m still lacking energy from being sick, I am only focusing on the most important things today. For example, since we aren’t leaving the house today, I am not enforcing everyone to get dressed. We can declare today a “pajama day”.

On top of all that, reading aloud is often a nightmare because I am always telling someone to “Shhhh”. Math consistently puts someone in tears. (Including me at times). Writing, my own favorite subject, is a subject I struggle to teach–especially at varying levels.

Bad attitudes are a norm (I know, they shouldn’t be, but I can only encourage good attitudes, not force them). Despite the fact that I’ve created a schedule and chore chart for each child, I am constantly telling them what they are supposed to be doing.

The sooner I accept the fact that homeschooling isn’t perfect because people aren’t perfect, the smoother our days will go.

Homeschooling isn’t meant to look perfect, it’s meant to serve a purpose, and that purpose will be defined by each family.

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Celebrating 14 Years of Marriage

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You are reading a series called “Life as a Homeschool Mom of Many” which is running throughout the month of October.

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September 30, 2014

So, today is my 14th wedding anniversary and I have been quite content to simply catch up on some work online and allow the children to have the day off homeschooling. It’s nearly 3:00pm and I am still in my pajamas. This rarely happens so I am OK with it.

Reaching the Heart

One of my adopted daughters had an incident when, after lunch, she shut down. After being home three months, I continue to learn and try to understand what triggers these times and how to best handle them. My flesh wants to react because that is what I am so used to doing. But I am grateful for the Holy Spirit who always intervenes.

While I do not want to encourage or condone manipulative behavior, I am not so sure that’s what this is — even if “the books” say it is. My daughter cannot be locked inside such a box. So, I tried both ways. I told her that this type of behavior — where she ignores everyone — is not OK behavior and that if she needs something she needs to come to Mommy or Daddy so we can help meet her need. Her need was that she was still hungry. I offered her one of 3 choices of fruit (all of which she likes).

Unfortunately, that conversation didn’t help to bring her back. And my goal and my heart is to truly help her feel safe, secure, and loved. So I went back and had another conversation with her, where I built her up with my words. I told her that I love her and that I want to meet her needs but I cannot do that if she doesn’t tell me what they are. I told her she is good kid and that I understand the adjustment to America with a new family has not been easy. I kissed her on the head and left.

A few minutes later she came out and I cut her an apple.

My husband stayed busy finishing up a table he built for himself to sit beside him on his recliner. Something sturdy. Here it is before he stained it.

Side Table

I must admit, seeing this table (after it was stained) in our living room makes me want to redecorate!

Anniversaries Aren’t Immune to Conflict

In the evening my mother in law took us out to dinner, but of course right before we left my husband and I got into a little spat. It was so stupid but it fizzled out before we made it to the restaurant.

If we were younger, it would have turned into an all out fight. God has really taught us how to tame our flesh to not react — at least not as severely. The last thing I wanted to do was end my anniversary fighting with my husband. So regardless of how I felt or how “right” I thought I was, I bit my tongue. It just wasn’t worth it.

We had a great time celebrating with our children. Fourteen years is something to celebrate!

We finished our evening watching Star Trek: Deep Space Nine episodes on Netflix. We’ve been on a Star Trek kick for about a year now. That’s how we wind down. Though, I do admit, I miss reading or writing a good post! :)

Oh and be sure to get your ticket for the Homemaking From Scratch conference coming up October 7th-9th. If you purchase your ticket before the conference dates, you’ll get over $200 of homemaking resources FREE. I will be speaking on Biblical Motherhood. Would love for you to join us! Click below for a full spread of topics, speakers, and the free resources.

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The Life of a Homeschool Mom of Many

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31 Days 2014
 

Day 1 – Celebrating 14 Years of Marriage

Day 2 – When Unexpected News Clouds the Day

Day 3 – The Day My Alarm Failed

Day 4 – Mommy Work Day

Day 5 – Saturdays

Day 6 – Sunday’s Are For Rest

Day 7 – Distract of the Dog

Day 8 – Terrible Tuesday

Day 9 & 10- Last Full Day

Day 11 & 12 – Family Workout Weekend

Day 13 – Chicken Breast Parmesan Bake

So, starting tomorrow (Wednesday, October 1), I will be sharing my raw life as a homeschooling mom of many for 31 days. My hope is to give people a realistic picture of what being a homeschool mom of many children really looks like.

Believe me when I say I have the ideal in my head, but reality doesn’t always play out that way. I have our schedule and our lesson plans but this isn’t just about homeschooling.

Homeschooling takes up a large (very large) chunk of my day. But I am also a work at home mom and I have to make time for my clients as well. If you don’t work at home, don’t let that discourage you from following along. I do not work full time hours. My working hours simply replace some of my own free time. I really enjoy what I do, so I don’t necessarily consider it “work”.

So, here is how I am going to set my posts up so they don’t feel all over the place.

I will do a few hour by hour posts throughout the month.

I am going to try and focus on a theme each day. However, if a theme fails to really present itself, I will just write about our day.

It will be a journal of sorts, and I will get personal into my own heart and struggles and write them publicly.

I will write in *almost* real time. What you read on a given day will be words from the day before. So I have not pre-written these posts for the month. I will write them as each day comes and goes.

Today is my 14th wedding anniversary, so tomorrow’s post will reflect what we did today as a family. I can tell you right now that I’ve canceled our lessons for the day in order to celebrate. :D

I will use my own photos as much as possible to offer a realistic picture rather than a stock image.

I will not worry about word count. Some posts will be longer than others and others may be short and sweet. They will ebb and flow with life within these 31 days.

You may find me sharing tips and recipes I use throughout the month as well. I honestly have no set plans or goals which is probably a huge no-no! Ha ha! I just want to write and be helpful where I can. But I will do my best to present the days in a way that will be helpful for you and easy to read.

October offers me a unique opportunity to share my experience at the Allume Conference–so I will be leaving my family for 4 days. Something I only do once a year.

So…here we go!

Oh and be sure to get your ticket for the Homemaking From Scratch conference coming up October 7th-9th. If you purchase your ticket before the conference dates, you’ll get over $200 of homemaking resources FREE. I will be speaking on Biblical Motherhood. Would love for you to join us! Click below for a full spread of topics, speakers, and the free resources.

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Online Writing Course {Giveaway!}

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Fortuigence Writing Course

Online Writing Course – Fortuigence

This is a sponsored review, which means I was given free access to a writing course from Fortuigence and paid for my time and to share my experience. You can read my full disclosure here.

I am becoming more and more fond of online learning when it’s a high quality, student focused program. Fortuigence is one of those programs. It has allowed my 12-year daughter to work on a writing piece throughout the summer with very little help from me–and when you have seven children, this is super wonderful!

I felt very confident that my daughter was learning well and receiving great feedback and I would periodically check her work and was very pleased with her instructor’s feedback.

For each lesson she would

  • Watch a video which contained the lesson
  • Read the instructions following the video
  • Worked through the assignment
  • Emailed her work to her instructor
  • Received feedback within a week

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The instructor, Miss Lily, was very timely in her responses and never faulted my daughter if she had to miss a few weeks, such as during our move or our trip to Ghana when we picked up our adopted daughters. She just picked up where she left off. This is very typical of our homeschool days. We ebb and flow with life as needed.

Miss Lily was very attentive and worked one-on-one with my daughter, to show her areas of improvement and praise her for good work. She couldn’t move on to the next step until the current one was mastered. I loved that. There was no rush, there was no pressure. It allowed my daughter to excel in her writing as well as feel confident in her abilities, despite her needed improvements.

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As my daughter continues through her middle school years, I want to help her continue to excel in her writing, be challenged, and really hone her writing skills. She already has a love for writing, so getting her to write is not difficult.

Having help with a solid, trusted, online program is truly a gift for busy homeschool moms. We don’t have to do it all and I think that recognizing that fact is truly freeing. In addition, it’s good to allow my children to experience being taught from someone other than myself.

Essay Rock Star Writing Courses

There are several classes offered through Fortuigence. They include:

Essay Rock Star

Essay Rock Star: The Personal Statement

Essay Rock Star: The Persuasive Essay

Essay Rock Star: The Expository Essay

Essay Rock Star: The Textual Analysis

You can learn more about these courses on their website.

My daughter did The Textual Analysis and it has been a wonderful {new} experience for her.

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The Disciplined Homeschool Mom

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I haven’t been as disciplined as I should be in our homeschooling. I created paths of bad habits throughout our adoption process due to the stress levels. Too often I have allowed free days, and while I don’t think it’s tragic to get away with when my children are young, they are getting older. My eldest is 12 and adding our two daughters has boosted the need for order and discipline.

One thing I need to remember is how privileged we are to be able to homeschool in this country, and the last thing I want to do is take it for granted.

It’s important for homeschool moms to be disciplined so they get the most from their time and offer the most to their children. I know some people don’t do well on schedules, but even a loose one is better than nothing. And to some degree, we all follow a routine of sorts.

A schedule doesn’t need to be wound so tight that it makes everyone cranky. It simply needs to offer direction and help you get things done, everyday.

I am really looking forward to the upcoming year, and have 3 weeks before we begin to plan out our first quarter (squee!).

So, what disciplines are good to brush up on? Maybe you can relate?

The Disciplined Homeschool Mom:

  1. Has a Vision
    If I do not know where we are headed, I will get nowhere–and neither will my children. It’s really important for a family to know why they are headed somewhere and how they are going to get there. What does God want for your children? Above all else, it is to trust in Him and follow Him. How can we accomplish that through homeschooling? How does God want academics used for His glory?
  2. Plans and Prepares
    In addition to having that vision, I need to plan and prepare my way there. I also need to leave some wiggle room for flexibility. All of this planning is in vain, however, if it is not done with much prayer and direction from God. What is the best way for my family to reach its destination? Furthermore, each homeschool week and day needs to be well planned and prepared ahead of time. The last thing I want to do is be fumbling for supplies or making copies in the middle of a lesson.
  3. Prays Regularly
    Praying is a non-negotiable. I don’t have room for excuses on why I am not meeting with God in prayer daily, especially in the morning hours, before our day begins. I absolutely need His strength, His direction, and His wisdom every single day and the only way to receive those is if I go to Him and ask for them. Each day offers new challenges and new horizons that will need new direction, wisdom, and certainly strength.
  4. Follows a Routine and Schedule
    It is vital my children are in a routine and know what to expect. It offers them a sense of security and direction, just as it does me. It also ensures we are accomplishing certain things every single day. A routine solidifies our eating and sleeping schedule. But our schedule keeps us on track doing such things as daily, weekly, and monthly chores as well as regular lessons. Everyone knows when we do what and knows where they should be and what they should be doing.
  5. Avoids Detours and Distractions
    This is a huge one for me — especially when it comes to the Internet and social media! Laptop needs to be shut, social media and email notifications turned off and my attention needs to be fully on my children as we go through our lessons. One distraction could literally disrupt an entire day! And if I consistently allow that to happen, we will never complete a full day of lessons. That is definitely a problem and cannot be allowed.

What about you? What discipline do you most need to work on? What can you add to this list? It’s definitely not exhaustive, and each mom will have her own need.

On a side note, today is the LAST day to get this full, pre-school curriculum for just $3.50.

The Preschool Journey

Early Reader Chapter Books

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Early Reader Chapter Books

Our daughters arrived home from Ghana two weeks ago and I have been trying to gauge their reading levels and see where they can best jump in. Since they know quite a bit of English, they read at a greater level than I expected. However, I am still trying to feel out their reading comprehension.

I decided to compile a list of early reader chapter books to help me get started. These range from very early readers to your middle-of-the-road readers–if I had to put a grade level on the list, I’d say first to fourth grade. But these books range in age anywhere from 5 years old to 12 years old.

These books are great for having your child read aloud to you and reading aloud to your child. So, even if your child reads at a first grade level, you can still read them a book listed in the third or fourth grade level. This will help build vocabulary and offer some great mom-child time! I don’t think children at home can ever be too old to be read aloud to, especially in a family setting.

Early Reader Chapter Books

Sarah, Plain and Tall

Magic Tree House {Series} – There are dozens of books in this series. They teach all kinds of history and science.

Amelia Bedelia {Series}

Fancy Nancy {Series}

Ling and Ting {Series}

The {Original} Boxcar Children {Series}

Charlie and the Chocolate Factory

The Trumpet of the Swan

The Cricket in Time Square

The Little House in the Big Woods {Series}

The Hardy Boys {Series}

Mr. Popper’s Penguins

American Girl {Series} There are dozens of these books. The older ones are the best!

The Indian in the Cupboard {Series}

Pippi Longstocking {Series}

Charlotte’s Web

Stuart Little

So, if you’re in need of a starting point for early reader chapter books, hopefully this list will point you in the right direction!

What books would you add to this list? Leave a comment below.

Homeschool Curriculum: Social Studies

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Homeschool Curriculum

Pearson Homeschool has some great bundles in various subjects. We’re working through Social Studies right now.

Social Studies hasn’t been something we have studied formally, from a book, in our homeschool until now. It has been a good experience so far, as my almost 6 year old daughter is learning some new things about community and responsibility as a member of society.

The first lesson was so great and she really took interest in what the children on the DVD had to say about “cooperation”. (And seriously, they were so cute!)

It’s funny now, listening to my daughter use the word, “cooperation” after learning its meaning. (Makes her sound so grown up, even if it is a little misused!)

For example, the other day she was trying to convince her younger brother that he needed to “cooperate” with her in order to get her room clean. I looked at her with my eyebrow raised and she said, “What? Cooperate  means ‘to work together’!” I couldn’t deny that and I just chuckled to myself.

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The Pearson Social Studies First Grade curriculum  teaches children about

  • rules
  • responsibility
  • leaders
  • our government
  • our country symbols
  • jobs
  • maps & globes
  • land & water
  • environment
  • culture
  • time & history
  • American heroes
  • and so much more!

It helps young children understand some of the foundations of what make up our society. In many cases, our children already experience much of what’s taught, however, this program really helps to put it into context for my daughter.

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I love how the workbook encourages critical thinking skills and creativity.

While life experiences are great for learning, sometimes it’s good to learn how to avoid mistakes before making them, too. Teaching children about money management, even in its simplest form, is a great start in learning money management skills the right way before learning the hard way.

Some children need to see it written down for it to really click. (I was that kind of child and have grown into that kind of adult). ;)

One of the things I love about this program is some of the illustrations are things I wouldn’t have thought of to help my child better understand certain concepts. Such as envisioning how orange juice makes it to the grocery store shelf. Unless my child asked me straightforward, I wouldn’t have thought to illustrate how the juice gets there in the first place.

For all she knows it’s just always there! She doesn’t realize, without being taught, that it starts off with oranges on a tree. Maybe it seems an obvious thing to teach, but as adults it can be easy to forget the obvious! Things we know but just don’t think much of.

The photographs in the workbook are all from real life, which I love because it shows my daughter these ideas are real. Cartoon illustrations, in this case, would only confuse what’s real, I think. So I really appreciated that detail.

Overall, the program is very well put together. We are really enjoying it together and she is learning more about how life around her works, right here in her community.

This program comes with the teacher’s guide on a CD-R as well as a DVD to watch videos with each unit.

Pearson also offers enVision Math Bundles, MCP Plaid Phonics Bundles, and Interactive Science Bundles,

Visit Pearson Homeschool to get 25% off any K-6 myWorld Social Studies Bundle (or the aforementioned) through August 15th, using promo code BLG25.  To see all the grade levels of this Social Studies Curriculum, click one below:

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Preschool Curriculum by Rod and Staff {Giveaway}

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Preschool Curriculum by Rod and Staff

Milestone Books has provided me a free PreK ABC series in exchange for this honest review. 

Preschool is such a great stage in many ways. Young children are free to explore and learn from play. While I have come across overly complicated (and very expensive) preschool curriculums, I really love how Rod and Staff’s preschool curriculum sticks to the basics.

When my eldest, now 11, was at the end of her third year, I started her on this preschool series. She enjoyed it so much, she worked through the entire series in just 6 weeks! That’s not to say it was over simplified, but because she enjoyed it.

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Now, my youngest who is three, is thoroughly enjoying that very same series.

PreK Curriculum

Features

The ABC Series focuses on teaching colors, shapes, coloring, cutting and pasting, stories, following directions, and neatness.

The feature that sticks out to me the most that I appreciate, is teaching the children to focus on doing their work neatly and carefully. It is too easy to forget to train our children to work carefully when they are preschoolers, because, well, they are preschoolers. But trying to undo habits later is a lot harder than simply teaching it right the first time.

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The instructions also put an emphasis on proper pencil holding. Again, something easy to miss or overlook. Holding a pencil the proper way helps to control and form letters neatly and easily.

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In the grand scheme of complicated preschool curricula, the little things can tend to be overlooked, such as forming circles in the right direction (counterclockwise), so letters such as lowercase a, d, g, and q aren’t written backwards or with great challenge.

The pace of work can be left up to the parents. I tend to work with my son about 2-3 days a week, as he shows interest. So far, he has greatly enjoyed his lessons and usually asks me to do it.

I also love how affordable this series is.

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Congratulations to Jessica, commenter #276! She won the preschool series!

Milestone Books is giving one reader a complete set of the ABC Series. It designed for children ages 4-5 but can be modified for younger or older children, if needed.

Books in the series include:

  • Adventures with Books: Instill a love for reading early on. Teach your children to use their imagination and learn matching skills, cutting & pasting and following simple directions.
  • Counting with Numbers: Easy-to-follow directions and clear black-and-white pictures help your child focus on leaning early counting skills.
  • Do it Carefully: Help your child learn to follow basic directions by teaching them shapes, sounds, and matching skills. Practice word meanings, such as left/right and big/little.
  • Everywhere We Go: More colors, shapes and sounds. Learning initial consonant sounds.
  • Finding the Answers: Teach rhyming, carefulness and personal responsibility.

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Simply leave a comment sharing your favorite thing about your preschool child/children.

Be sure to visit Milestone Books for this PreK series and more!

Giveaway ends Tuesday at 11:59pm EST.

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5 Things to Pack for a Homeschool Convention

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It’s not unusual when you head to a conference or convention for the first time to wonder what some of the most important things are you’ll need to pack.

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I’ve learned after attending conferences, there are definitely some “must have’s” on a trip like that. This, of course, will vary if you’re bringing along a baby or the entire family. But for now, let’s just stick with what to pack for yourself. I’ll offer a few bonus items for anyone who would need to bring their baby along.

  1. A Handbag. This is important to carry around the convention so you can store a notebook, snacks, mints or gum, convention and vendor literature as well as have the ability to carry things back to your room from the vendors if needed. If you’re looking for something durable, I highly recommend the bags from Freeset (which also help keep women in India out of the sex slave industry because they are employed by making these fantastic bags.)
  2. A Binder. While not totally necessary, some people keep organized using a small binder  for note taking, jotting down email addresses from people met along the way, vendor websites to look up later, etc.
  3. A Cardigan Sweater (that matches all the outfits you pack). I cannot tell you how many times I’ve attended sessions when I was freezing! It’s really  hard to concentrate when you’re shivering, so be sure to pack something universal and warm enough if a room is chilly.
  4. Laptop or iPad (or Smartphone at the very least). It’s great to be able to look up prices to compare while you’re shopping for curriculum. It will also help keep you connected with those who couldn’t make it or don’t understand what’s so great about a homeschool convention. You can share in pictures!
  5. Comfortable Shoes. Yes, this is important. While the idea of dressing fancy (even in a nice pair of boots with heals) is nice, comfort should probably take precedence in this case. Because you’ll be doing a lot of mingling and be out and about, and a long way from home (typically). You’ll want to bring shoes you can last the weekend in!

Great Homeschool Conventions in Greenville, South Carolina actually begins TODAY starting at 2:00pm EST and tickets can be purchased at the door.

Other convention locations include Cinncinnati, OH – April 24-26 and Ontario, CA – June 12-14. It’s not too late to register online for those two locations!
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GHC is planning some blogger meet ups for SC and OH. Be sure to follow them on Facebook and/or Twitter for updates!

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3 Reasons You Want to Hear Ben Carson Speak

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Ben Carson has a fascinating story. I read his autobiography and watched it in movie form a couple weeks ago. An incredible, real life hero who our children can learn from.

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Dr. Carson dreamt of being a physician beginning in elementary school. The challenges he faced made him even more determined to excel and despite his circumstances, he grew up to become one of the top pediatric neurosurgeons in the world.

“An individual must believe in himself and in his abilities. To do his best, one needs a confidence that says, ‘I can do anything, and if I can’t do it, I know how to get help.'” -Gifted Hands

He is a living example that we do not have to be defined by our circumstances or position in life if we are willing to put the work in to rise above it. Today, I want to share a few reasons why I believe you’ll want to hear Ben Carson speak live at Great Homeschool Conventions. Oh yes. He will be there.

Ben Carson

He overcame his circumstances.

He made no excuses for his upbringing, his living conditions, the difficulties his mother faced, how kids treated him at school or his violent temper. He truly rose above all the garbage and was determined to do his best. There was no substitute for hard work in Ben’s life. If he wanted to know something, he went and sought out the answer.

He didn’t allow his circumstances to define him and he learned that from his mom he could do what anyone else could do. His mom is really where his story begins. His mom is the one who encouraged him to push beyond his limits. His mom.

Mothers, do not doubt the power of your role in your child’s life, regardless of your circumstances. Your words matter and your encouragement matter. Challenge your children. Do not let them give up and do not hand them everything. Make them work for it.

Our children need real life inspiration.

Hollywood doesn’t have what our children need. It isn’t real and what is real in Hollywood is a hot mess. If you have never read the story of Ben Carson, I highly recommend it before going to hear him speak at Great Homeschool Conventions. Even better would be to allow your {older} children to read his autobiography for themselves (or as a read aloud) and have a discussion.

was inspired reading his story, to not only excel as a writer, but as a homeschool mom as well. He didn’t need to come out and specifically say, “You can be a better homeschool mom”. His story alone compelled me. I believe it can inspire and compel our children to excellence as well. In today’s culture, children need to be reminded by people outside of their parents, that success requires real hard work. Things aren’t just handed to us nor should our children expect everything to be handed to them. Let Ben Carson’s story speak for itself and then go beyond by hearing him live at GHC.

Because this is a great opportunity.

How often do you or your children get to have the opportunity to meet someone who’s made history in such a remarkable way? Not only as a doctor, but as someone who rose from their circumstances rather then using them as an excuse. This is an awesome chance to shake hands with a man who is a great example for us all!

He’s the kind of leader and role model this country needs.

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So, what are you waiting for? If you haven’t yet, grab your Great Homeschool Conventions registration here. If you are attending South Carolina or Ohio conventions, Dr. Benjamin Carson will be speaking at both.

Now, find out more reasons you want to hear Ben Carson here!

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